阿雅 – 创伤的桎梏
（老钉译，2023年6月28日）
我心中挚爱的人们！此时此刻，我想谈谈创伤枷锁的本质，以及在这个清醒梦中爱上施虐者的危险。我们将谈到灵魂计划的一些方面，以及你从破碎的关系中得到的礼物，使得你在自己的存在之美中上升得更高！
所有关系都是以爱意和迷恋开始，情意绵绵，志趣相投，无话不谈。每个人都生活在高我为你选择的身份和故事中，只为在每一个清醒梦中体验和成长。随着故事的发展，往往会出现不和谐的情况，随后是爱和道歉的话语。
两个人都不明白他们是对方的投影。谁也不是对方的小我为其所选择的有形投影。每个灵魂都是在完美中，前来体验和扩展意识。带着深邃的意图，一些课程需要与其他灵魂一起深度探索。
许多灵魂选择密友或源生家庭成员，在故事中扮演角色。他们彼此选择映衬对方不同的侧面，以触发其进入体验成长所需的确切条件。一旦灵魂抵达，变成体验二元性的人类，他们便忘记了灵魂计划，因为他们已经进入了一个冲突与养育相结合的密度。
随着相爱的双方体验到愤怒、爱、同情和反感，二人之间的二元性在方方面面表现出争斗，分歧会激烈迸发。在二人关系中，如果一方总是主动讲和，相当被动和顺从，那么，另一方则很可能是易怒的，而且从不道歉。
这是一个危险的组合，因为虐待会随着时间的推移不断升级。创伤的桎梏是非常真实的，随着虐待的持续，身体和大脑会发生许多变化。催产素是一种激素，在出生后和婴儿哺乳期的粘合阶段，在大脑中被激活。这个激素在性活动中，或甚至在对顺从伴侣表达的善意，或任何类似爱的情况下，也被释放出来。
多巴胺是一种神经递质，可以提高快感，并对创伤性关系中经历的忽上忽下成瘾。当被虐者寻求解脱时，他们往往回到消极的毒性关系中，希望得到一丝认可，即在混乱中仍存在一些值得留恋的东西。
肾上腺素和皮质醇涌入受虐者的系统，因为“战斗或逃逸”的感觉一直高度存在。是留是走的困惑，让人筋疲力尽，每个人回到安静状态时，记忆中怅然若失。
婚姻和关系往往使人心碎，因为每个人都对重复心生厌倦，不再相信这是他们曾经仰慕的同一个人。现在，对方的能量正在破坏他们曾经的平和！
如果你发现自己身处创伤的桎梏中，
要知道，你可以终止这种循环。
方法是，离开对方，
发现你内心的平和。
每个人都完全有可能原谅别人，
并带着从浪漫变战场的深刻教训，
将生活翻篇。
每个灵魂都是值得的，
都有伟大的目的。
审视每一种情况，
并从更高的存在状态中，
找到理解的深度！
这一切都不会持久，
但是，当你变换到灵魂的角度来看，
什么也没有浪费！
把你的敌人看成是你的朋友，
只是你们道不同而不相为谋，
这是你在很久以前就深度计划好的。
当你在某个遥远的星球上，
坐着思考各种可能性时，
你总是知道，这个故事会殊途同归。
让他们带着学到的教训，
平静地离开吧！
释放，放手，
这是你给自己的疗愈礼物！
宽恕每个人，
原谅一切事！
因为在高维，
你会明白你的灵魂计划，
而持有不宽恕的能量，
会使你看不到带着优雅的爱之教训！
从神圣意识的以太中，
我在爱的频率中螺旋上升！
恩溢满爱！
我是如此爱你！
AYA
阿雅
英文原文
Aya – Trauma Bonds – June 28, 2023 ~ Family of Taygeta
Beloved Ones Of My Heart!
In These Moments, I Will Share About The Nature Of Trauma Bonds And The Danger Of Loving An Abuser In This Waking Dream. We Will Address The Aspects Of Soul Plans And The Opportunity You Have To Gather Gifts From Broken Pieces And Rise Higher In Your Own Beauty Of Beingness!
In The Beginning Of All Relationships There Is Love And An Affinity For The Endless Affection And Sharing Of Wonderful Conversations Of Mutual Interests.
Each Person Is Living The Identity And Story That Was Chosen By The Higher Self In Order To Experience And Grow With Each Waking Dream.
As The Story Progresses, There Is Often Discord That Is Followed By Words Of Love And Apologies. Neither Person Understands That They Are The Projections Of The Other. No One Is Ever A Projection In Form That Another’s Ego Would Choose For Them To Be.
In Perfection, Each Soul Arrives To Experience And Expand In Consciousness. With Deep Intention, There Are Lessons And Depth To Explore With Other Souls.
Many Souls Choose Stories That Will Allow Their Close Friends Or Family Members Of Origin To Play Roles. Choices Are Made To Mirror To One Another Different Aspects That Will Trigger The Other Into Exactly What Is Needed To Experience Conditions Necessary For Growth.
Once A Soul Has Arrived To Become A Human Being In Duality, The Memories Of Their Plan Are Forgotten As They Have Entered A Density Of Conflict Combined With Nurturing. The Aspects Of Duality Are Contending With One Another As The Loving Partners Experience Anger, Love, Compassion And Revulsion. This Is Quite An Explosion Of Dichotomy.
In Relationships Where One Is The Peacemaker And Rather Passive And Submissive, The Other Might Be Raging And Never Apologetic. This Is A Dangerous Combination Of Being As Abuse Escalates Over Time.
A Trauma Bond Is Very Real And Many Changes Are Occurring Within The Body And Brain As Abuse Is Ongoing. Oxytocin Which Is A Hormone That Is Activated In The Brain During The Bonding Phase Of Birth And Nursing An Infant, Is Also Released During Sexual Activity Or Even With Kindness And Anything That Resembles Love To The Submissive Partner. Dopamine Is A Neurotransmitter That Allows A Heightened Sense Of Pleasure And Becomes Quite Addictive With The Highs And Lows Experienced In A Trauma Bond.
As The Abused Person Seeks Relief, They Return To The Negativity And Toxic Relationship In Hopes To Receive A Crumb Of Recognition That There Is Something Still There In The Chaos.
Adrenaline And Cortisol Pour Through The System Of The Abused Partner As A Heightened Sense Of ‘Fight Or Flight’ Is Ever Present.
The Confusion Of Whether To Stay Or Go, Becomes Exhausting And Each Returns To Quietness And The Memories Of Something Lost.
Marriages And Relationships Often Break Hearts As Each Is Becoming Weary Of The Repetitions And Disbelief That This Is The Same Person They Had On A Pedestal. Now The Energy Of The Other Is Destroying Their Once Peaceful State Of Being!
If You Find Yourself In A Trauma Bond, Know That You Can Stop The Cycle. Understand There Is A Way To Walk Away And Discover The Peace That You Carry Within.
It Is Entirely Possible For Each Person To Forgive And Move On With Lessons And Depth They Have Received On This Battlefield That Was Once A Romance.
Every Soul Is Worthy And Has Great Purpose. Look At Each Situation And Find The Depth Of Understanding From A Higher State Of Being!
None Of This Will Last But Nothing Is Wasted As You Change Your Perspective To That Of Your Soul!
See Your Enemy As A Friend That You Are Parting Ways With In Depths Of Planning You Made Long Ago. As You Sat On Some Distant Star And Pondered The Possibilities, You Always Knew The Story Had Multiple Pathways.
Allow Them Peace To Walk Away With Lessons Learned! This Is The Gift Of Healing That You Give To Yourself As You Release And Let Go!
Forgive Everyone For Everything! For In The Higher Realms You Will Understand The Planning Of Your Soul And That Holding The Energy Of Unforgiveness Will Blind You To The Lesson That Is There To Receive With Grace And Love!
From The Ethers Of Sacred Awareness, I Spiral In Frequencies Of Love!
EN EEKE MAI EA!
I Love You So!
AYA